OMFG please help with ufc 2009 undisputed question!!?

i'm ******* pissed, i bought this game and it's hard as hell, i can't beat this japanese guy on career mode, and he just gets on top of me and punches me out ever time and wins by KO...I sign out, and retry but the ******* same thing happens every time. i'm a muay thai BJJ any tips that can get me to own him?? and how the hell do i get him off of me when he's punching my face? please dont say use the spin stick, i know that, but what way do u spin it? WTF this game is so confusing i will choose a best answer if you can help me with this annoying as hell problem, thanks a lot!!