I seem to be attracting the wrong men! What am I doing wrong and what can I do differently?

Do whatever you feel you need to do to get the man you want. You're in your 30's and if you're thinking of marriage then seeing more the one guy is a good thing. Think of it as a shopping for new shoes. Got to try them all on to find the right fit and looks right. Beside you know what you're looking for.Right? Trust me we guys know exactly what we are looking for.